We are all a hater, be it something you hate, someone you loathe.
Hating has a way of allowing a person you hate to have some control over you, while you hate them they can control your thoughts and actions in a way you can’t quite understand. Say you’re walking on a certain sidewalk, you see your most ultimate hated ex boyfriend/girlfriend, often times, you’ll feel something inside you, a raging emotion, like, cursing that person on your mind, feeling like slugging that person until his/her face is unrecognizable. That control is something like a psychological control, and it is so wrong.
I always feel this rage, I’ve hated so many, and hating them won’t either make me happy and or contented, now I can’t hardly see the sense of it. All I can see is that control over my thoughts and actions.
I’d better forgive them rather than let them control me. D’OH! :)